[03:48.38]No, she said she's been dealing¹⁰ with couples that are breaking up... 不，她的几个病人和配偶分手...
[03:53.10]-...for the same reason. -What reason is that? -...都是同一个原因 -什么原因?
[03:53.34]They all expected, after a few years of living together... 他们都期望通过几年的相处...
[03:56.06]...for the passion, that desire, to be the same. ...可以让激情与意向一致
[04:00.06]-Yeah, right. -It's impossible. -对 -这不可能
[04:00.62]And thank God... 感谢上帝...
[04:03.62]...we'd end up with aneurysms in that constant state of excitement, right? ...我们是在感觉最美好的时候结束的?
[04:07.22]We'd do nothing at all with our lives. 我们没有影响生活
[04:09.10]Would you have finished your book if you were fucking every five minutes? 如果你每五分钟干一次， 你还有时间写完书么?
[04:11.78]I might have welcomed the challenge, I mean.... 我倒是欢迎这样的挑战....
[04:14.02]It's natural for your wife after the birth of your son... 孩子的出生...
[04:16.62]-...to give all her love to the little one. -Of course. -...会让妈妈把更多的爱倾注给孩子，很正常 -当然
[04:21.82]If she was obsessed¹¹ with sex, riding you like a wildcat.... 如果她沉迷于性， 像野猫一样骑着你....
[04:23.18]That wouldn't make any sense, right? 那可不理智，对吧?
[04:24.78]Everything you're saying makes sense. It's not about sex. 你说的一切都理智， 但是不关性
[04:30.86]No, I know. It's obvious. 我知道，这很明显
[04:31.34]I.... 我....
[04:36.30]You know, couples are so confused lately. 你知道， 夫妇们一直都很迷茫
[04:37.78]I think it must be that... 我想一定是...
[04:41.50]...men need to feel essential and they don't anymore. ...男人要有感觉存在的必要， 但他们没有
[04:46.06]It's been imprinted¹² in their head for so many years... 这些观念存在好些年了...
[04:47.86]...that they had to be the provider. ...他们一定要成为供给者
[04:49.46]Like, I'm a strong, independent woman in my professional life. 比如我是个独立的职业女性
[04:52.82]I don't need a man to feed me... 我不需要一个男人来养我...