13．坎坷情路
For one human being to love another :that is perhaps the most difficult of our tasks ;the ultimate ,the last test and proof ,the work for which all other work is but preparation
让一个人支爱另一个人，这或许是我们最艰巨的任务，是最终和最后的考验和证明。其它的一切只不过是前奏而已
-----Rainer Maria Rilke 里尔克
The pain of love is the pain of being alive .It is a perpetual1 wound
爱的育苦即活着的痛苦，它是永恒的伤痛
-----Maureen Duffy 达菲
You can’t buy love ,but you can pay heavily for it
你不能习到爱情，但你可以为之付出高昂的代价
-----Henny Youngman 扬曼
Of all pains ,the greatest pain is to love ,and love in vain
苦中之苦，莫过于爱而无果
-----George Granville 格兰维尔
We are never so defenseless against suffering as when we love ,never so forlornly unhappy as when we have lost our love lbject or its love
我们从不像恋爱时那样对痛苦毫不设防，也从不像失恋时那样凄凉悲惨
-----Sigmund Freud 弗洛伊德
Love opens your chest and opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up.
爱扒开你的胸膛，掏出你的心脏，有人就乘机侵入你的心胸把你搞得一团糟。
