W-4:weight one's words 字斟句酌
A:What are you doing?
A:你在干什么?
B:I am writing a letter to my boyfriend.
B:我正打算给男朋友写信。
A:You look so serious?
A:那为什么你看起来一脸严肃呀?
B:I'm just weighing my words. I don't want to marry him, but I don't want to hurt his feeling, either.
B:我只是在斟酌字句,我不想嫁给他,又不想伤他的心。