T-4:take its toll(of/on) 造成损伤
A:We used to be very friendly, but it seems now that my daughter's marriage has taken its toll of our relationship.
A:我和女儿本来感情很好,可是现在她的婚姻问题却破坏了我们的感情。
B:What do you mean?
B:这话怎讲?
A:I don't like her husband, that bad egg, but my daughter insists on marrying him.
A:我不喜欢她的丈夫,那个坏蛋,但她坚持要嫁给他。
B:She is a grown-up, She can make her own decision.
B:她是个成年人了,她能够自己做决定了。
A:I wish she wouldn't regret for her decision.
A:但愿她不会后悔。