T-1:take a back seat 次要地位
A:Lily thinks that the job takes a back seat to the family after she is married.
A:莉莉认为结婚后家庭为先,工作处于次要地位。
B:She must be a good wife.
B:她一定是一个好妻子。
A:Not necessarily. This is only what she says, not what she does.
A:那也未必,说归说,做归做。
B:I see.
B:我明白这个道理。